25 Marriage Conversation Starters

We have previously talked about improving communication in your marriage and given several worksheets you and your spouse could go through to help develop empathy and conversations. This article is a fun version of that which bore out of a previous article on 10 Tips To Improve Your Marriage where point 8 says “Be Interested In Your Spouse.” So below are 25 marriage conversation starters to help reconnect with your relationship with your spouse.

1. How do you remember how we first met?
2. What were your first impressions of me?
3. What was it about me that initially drew you to your me, even if it was after our first meeting?
4. What were your thoughts on the proposal?
5. What was the thing you loved to do with me before which we haven’t been doing lately?
6. What was something you have always wanted to do with me, but haven’t, and could try now?
7. What are your favorite things to do together with me now?
8. Of all the dates we had, which was the best and why?
9. Any of the dates we had we should try again now that we are married?
10. What are some of your favorite traditions as a couple?
11. Can you think of other traditions we put aside that we should consider taking up?
12. If we could define the terms, what does an ideal day together look like?
13. In the last year, what are your favorite things about me?
14. What do you appreciate most about me right now?
15. What do you feel makes us a great team?
16. If you had to describe me in 3 words, what would they be?
17. If you had to describe us in 3 words, what would they be?
18. What was the thing that made you happiest today?
19. What is something you hope happens to you or us in the next 30 days?
20. What is something that made you thankful in the last seven days?
21. What is something that could make today great?
22. What are you most proud of accomplishing this week?
23. If we could do something nice for someone else, what would you want to do?
24. What is one thing that has been a pleasant surprise about me in our marriage?
25. What makes you most proud that I do?

If you had to add any questions, what would you add? What is your favorite question to ask your spouse which helps start conversations with your spouse?