Ministry and counseling are challenging due to both positions’ cognitive and emotional toll. We carry our clients’ and congregation members’ heavy burdens, emotional pains, and spiritual scars. Many times, these are things shared in confidence, and only through supervision can we find the ability to share the burden ourselves and through prayer. So, I wanted to share five things pastors and Christian counselors need to consider for themselves in dealing with the stress of these jobs. That being said, share your favorite thing you do in the comments.
[Read more…] about 5 Tips for Pastoral and Counselor StressChristian Leadership and Mental Health
Christian pastors carry the significant weight of spiritual leadership in a world that often demands more than we can give. Leading a church is a sacred and fulfilling calling, but it is also filled with challenges that can take a toll on mental health. The pressure to be spiritually strong, emotionally available, and physically present for others can sometimes leave pastors feeling overwhelmed, isolated, and burned out.
[Read more…] about Christian Leadership and Mental HealthBuilding Resilient Churches: The Role of Pastors in Promoting Mental Health
In the hustle and bustle of modern ministry, pastors often find themselves juggling numerous responsibilities, from preaching and teaching to counseling and pastoral care. Amid these demands, the mental health of both the pastors themselves and their congregations can sometimes be overlooked. Yet, promoting mental health is a crucial aspect of building a resilient church. By actively supporting mental well-being, pastors can foster a community that is not only spiritually strong but also emotionally and mentally resilient.
As May comes to an end, we want one last push to discuss Mental Health Awareness in support of the role of the Church on this important topic. We ask that you look at your own ministry and look to see what is needed for your ministry that you can support.
[Read more…] about Building Resilient Churches: The Role of Pastors in Promoting Mental HealthPastoral Care Guidelines
We are excited to announce the release of our new Pastoral Care Guidelines short ebook. In working with pastoral staff, we saw the need to have some basic guidelines to offer to pastoral staff who wanted a couple of quick tips, a reference guide to quickly look over before they went out the door to the hospital or home for someone struggling, or as a training tool for new staff.
[Read more…] about Pastoral Care GuidelinesPastors, Burnout, and Some Hope
Pastor burnout is a thing. We’ve talked about it quite a few times here. But it’s a topic that will need to be talked about routinely for a long while. Want evidence of the need? Check out the newest data collected by Barna Group in the State of Pastors, Volume 2, which has seen some stark negative and positive changes in recent years concerning work satisfaction and personal stability for pastors. Here are some of the highlights to coincide with our point:
[Read more…] about Pastors, Burnout, and Some HopeTrauma-Informed Care from Churches?
As Christian leaders, pastors hold a profound responsibility to nurture and care for the spiritual well-being of their congregations. I do not think it is a large leap that many churches then take partial responsibility for the emotional and cognitive well-being of the congregation as well, though we know there is a difference in the role of the pastor and a counselor.
In today’s world, where many individuals carry the invisible scars of trauma, churches must become places of healing and restoration. We see that Christ Himself is our high tower (Psalms 144:2), this fortress (Samuel 2 22:2), and a source of strength (2 Timothy 4:17-18) Adopting a trauma-informed approach is not just a trend; it’s a reflection of Christ’s compassionate ministry to the brokenhearted.
[Read more…] about Trauma-Informed Care from Churches?988 Suicide Prevention Lifeline PSA for Faith Leaders
Last year, we shared about the new national US number for suicide prevention, 988, that an individual can call or text any time, any day. I’d encourage you to check it out because they have free resources for your counseling agency or ministry to share with individuals and post in your community or building so people know about the always available number. However, the US Department of Health and Human Services Partnership Center is doing more to promote 988 within faith communities with public service announcements.
[Read more…] about 988 Suicide Prevention Lifeline PSA for Faith LeadersWhy Jesus Wept
As a Christian counselor, I have found myself in many stories with clients that included the loss of a spouse or child, a victim of domestic violence, the agony of a dream or future that would never come to be, and the tears of redemption, hope, grace, and peace. I have had my fair share of tears in counseling and so this verse, John 11:35, interests me a lot. It starts with who Jesus is, fully God and fully man.
The topic of Jesus being fully God and fully man is a theological concept that is easy to say, hard to understand, and a nearly endless deepness to learn from. The concept is that Jesus who is part of the trinity of God as the Son, came to Earth as a living sacrifice for our sins. But Jesus’ death without a life in this world that is blameless would not do and so we can find comfort in understanding Jesus has been where we currently are.
[Read more…] about Why Jesus WeptMandatory Reporting for Churches [eBook]
Back in June, my church started up an intentional prayer team ministry that happens after the sermon while worship is still going on. The thought was we have many prayer needs and a place in the lobby called Next Steps for people to pray, but in the hustle of getting kids from nursery, saying goodbye to church friends, and off to the local diner for Sunday lunch, we were missing a lot of time to pray with people. So we kicked off the initiative with a training and recently launched.
But the pastors were very mindful of what we were offering. They asked me to talk about mandatory reporting for our volunteers that joined the prayer ministry. I wanted to come prepared and attempted to research some good curriculum and resources. What I found for churches was very, very little. What I did find cost a lot of money or was a decade old.
[Read more…] about Mandatory Reporting for Churches [eBook]Spiritual First Aid
Mental health has always been a stigmatized thing within the Church, but the last decade has started to see some significant changes. One question I get asked a lot is how to educate people and that led to my sharing what my church has been doing to break the stigma of mental illness, with a new post every year on how we are further developing it. I also did a short video on this talking about several strategies your church could do right away and a separate list of 10 free ways to stop stigma.
But having an on-demand option is nice. Imagine you have a new hire at your church or volunteer that signed up and you want them to get some training? Maybe you need to do a quick refresher after a critical incident happened and noticed some flaws in the response. In my opinion, this is where Spiritual First Aid comes in.
This site is a 6-session certificate course that teaches peer-to-peer spiritual and emotional care and trauma-informed best practices. It is not my first or second option, but should absolutely be used at some capacity in your church process with training.
Having gone through the first course and seen the overview of the curriculum, I highly endorse it. If you go visit the website linked above, they currently are offering for free Session 1 and download practical tools for responding to spiritual and emotional needs that include a BLESS CPR quick-reference, basic overview of trauma, 12 self-aid resilience practices, and 20 encouraging verses.
What Is BLESS CPR?
Here’s the website’s description:
Similar to medical first aid which provides temporary help, Spiritual First Aid’s BLESS CPR step-by-step helping framework will help you master small actions that make a big difference. Learn how to holistically respond to struggles such as anxiety, depression, substance abuse, work problems, and relationship issues. Be equipped to walk alongside others through trauma caused by grief, abuse, violence, and disasters.
If that’s not enough, if you sign up for their newsletter, every week I feel like I’m getting a high grade eBook for free to download that every church should have. So go check out the website now, at least view the free video and download the freebies, and see if this is a resource you could use.
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